悲痛欲绝[ bēi tòng yù jué ]

⒈ 感情或感觉上悲痛到极点。例当他听到他朋友去世的消息时他悲痛欲绝。英be filled with deep sorrow; with emotion of grief;

⒉ 悲不欲生。英convulsed with a rage of grief;